Open-Ended Manipulation + Self-Hate
Y'all know this story. Women conversing with a man other than her boyfriend. She obviously gets caught, still lies, wouldn't give up information to boyfriend and because of that got a bruised and sprained finger, gets called of the names in the book, is told no one would ever love her that he does, and the cherry on the ice cream punched with a closed fist to the face also made of fun of for crying because of the punch to the face. You would think after all those activities that would be the end of that relationship. But sadly like in most cases it is not it still goes on. Not trusting each other, no respect for each other but LOVE. LOVE is why this relationship remains.
It's time to dig deep. What's really going on. For one the two are clearly self insecure, and fully co-dependent, alls while masking the some of love to be the reason they stay inseparable. Just like Chris Brown and Rihanna, Ike and Tina Turner they forgive and move on, but, the world does not.
Separation is of course insisted by the young queen but the king manipulates her out of her decision. He controls the situation by saying, I love you. We love each other and that's all that should matter. We are great when were good. And the classic, of course others want us apart their jealous (as tho is could not be for any other possible reason).
Is the king in himself going thru denial? Relationships often stay past there expiration point for a few reasons.
1. Comfortability
2. Scared to be alone
3. Satisfaction of someone who cares about you good or bad and always being there.
4. You love the DRAMA!!!
5. You have no self love, and you allow things that are negative to you continue to be in your space.
Either way, love is not the answer to all. It is very okay to choose yourself. After a few weeks maybe even a year you'll start too feel the decision of self love, happiness and peace was best!
CHOOSE YOU!!!
xoxo SHAY!