BEING HAPPY AND POSITIVE THROUGH THE CRAP EVEN WHEN LIFE ISN'T FAIR.

I say, they say, we all say that the idea of positive thinking and affirmations are great! Yea we got it. I really believe in living a positive life gets you ahead but I won't act or tell you that it's easy, like all you need to do is put on u=your red sparkly shoes, click your heels twice and all your worries will go away.

My life has not been so ideal and the road has been very bumpy and cracked. I want to share with you how I got out alive and still paving my roads with concrete to make the ride more smoother. Happiness does exist and when you get hold of it you will know. It's almost of feeling of when you get to the top of the roller coaster and drop how your hands are up and you have no care in the world, it's the moment of freedom and letting loose of all the crap. It's awesome!

There are days where things will not make sense, a family member dies, you lose your job, wallet got stolen, and you like what huh, the life coaches of the world and the gurus didn't say this will happen. They said think happy be positive and that how life will be. So, your left to assume that bad unfair things just won't happen. Though we would love for this to be true, SHIT jus does happen, it is for a lack of a better word LIFE!

There is no such thing as being perfect or being more enlightened than the next. We are all in this together and we most work together to help each other get out these rough patches and vibrate higher. Contrary to what celebs or instagram stars show you for what seems to be a perfect life no one was born with that much excellence. We all are growing and learning and if you're not taking the time to do so you are stopping your own evolution. Because of my life story and the things I have been through I can come here and help you and hopefully you vibe off of my words and connect to them. I believe in woman empowerment and uplifting, so I will do anything in my nature to help us get to that pinnacle of greatness.

Here are just a few way we can be positive and find that happiness even through that crap:

1. Bad Days Are Necessary And Ok- we are human, there is emotion and headache that happens. I definitely have days were I want to pull all my locs out, and its ok! There are lessons in everything even the not so nice things. When the good days come they will be more rewarding.
2. Love Just Ain't Enough Sometimes-Love is a tricky son of a biscuit. Relationships should bring you up and be that support you need when you have those bad days. But, is it's not and causes those rocky roads in your life, let it go. WHATS LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT, some people are just not meant to be. Your happiness and peace of mind are all that matters.
3. Nobody Is Responsible For Your Happiness- the blame game is cute and adds drama in movies but, this is real life and AIN'T NOBODY got time for that. You decifer your life, you have the keys to let anyone or anything come into or out your space. You determine how you treat others, so just stop it! for real tho stop!

Love Shay xoxo,